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Post by Sorillon on May 6, 2014 10:39:02 GMT -6
Have a good night
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Post by Midnattblod on May 6, 2014 13:27:31 GMT -6
I can't wait till I have the monetary funds for my planned gaming setup. it'll be so nice to be able to play whatever, whenever.
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Post by Sorillon on May 6, 2014 13:29:56 GMT -6
I want to do something like that eventually.
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Post by Midnattblod on May 6, 2014 13:34:45 GMT -6
yea. I hate hearing about awesome games for this console or that console or just PC and not being able to play them. one of these days I'll have it all and just hid in my house doing nothing but gaming and sleeping lol. and going to the bars and what not. can't forget about that. even though I'm not social I still like to go to a quiet bar and chill. usually with friends.
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Post by Sorillon on May 6, 2014 15:37:49 GMT -6
Good stuff.
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Post by Taliesin on May 6, 2014 17:08:45 GMT -6
I wish I had a social life. People tell me that I can simply step out of the house and get one. That's not worked for me yet.
Must be something wrong with me then. Ha ha.
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Post by TAZ on May 6, 2014 18:33:29 GMT -6
i don't have one either bud
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Post by Midnattblod on May 6, 2014 21:38:19 GMT -6
eh social lives are overrated. why would you want to listen to a bunch if random people babble about stupid stuff. video games are much more important.
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Post by Crouton on May 6, 2014 21:47:38 GMT -6
I wish I had a social life. People tell me that I can simply step out of the house and get one. That's not worked for me yet. Must be something wrong with me then. Ha ha. I didn't have a social life after High School. I literally turned into a hermit. I spent a solid 8 months where I hardly left the house and did nothing, and saw no one but my family. As depressing as that sounds... I actually loved every minute of it. And I sometimes miss that time. I'm social now, and for me it's a double-edged sword. I have a big group of friends now, and I love them all, but it can be so tiring having to hang out with them all the time. When I can't spend long periods of time at home on my own I get anxious. And sometimes I'll have different friends asking me out to do things on almost every day of the week, which is nice, but on the otherhand makes me feel nervous and anxious.
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Post by Midnattblod on May 6, 2014 22:04:34 GMT -6
this thread really does change topic a lot. I just have a small group of friends and I'm perfectly happy with that.
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Post by TAZ on May 7, 2014 2:26:37 GMT -6
insert swear. for those of you wishing to know the swear, check my fb page
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Post by TAZ on May 7, 2014 2:27:28 GMT -6
I wish I had a social life. People tell me that I can simply step out of the house and get one. That's not worked for me yet. Must be something wrong with me then. Ha ha. I didn't have a social life after High School. I literally turned into a hermit. I spent a solid 8 months where I hardly left the house and did nothing, and saw no one but my family. As depressing as that sounds... I actually loved every minute of it. And I sometimes miss that time. I'm social now, and for me it's a double-edged sword. I have a big group of friends now, and I love them all, but it can be so tiring having to hang out with them all the time. When I can't spend long periods of time at home on my own I get anxious. And sometimes I'll have different friends asking me out to do things on almost every day of the week, which is nice, but on the otherhand makes me feel nervous and anxious. i wanna be a hermit. if it wasnt for family i guess i would be
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Post by Firiath on May 7, 2014 3:31:55 GMT -6
wait, we have to make sense now? See, that was just me not making sense
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Post by Firiath on May 7, 2014 3:38:16 GMT -6
I didn't have a social life after High School. I literally turned into a hermit. I spent a solid 8 months where I hardly left the house and did nothing, and saw no one but my family. As depressing as that sounds... I actually loved every minute of it. And I sometimes miss that time. I'm social now, and for me it's a double-edged sword. I have a big group of friends now, and I love them all, but it can be so tiring having to hang out with them all the time. When I can't spend long periods of time at home on my own I get anxious. And sometimes I'll have different friends asking me out to do things on almost every day of the week, which is nice, but on the otherhand makes me feel nervous and anxious. i wanna be a hermit. if it wasnt for family i guess i would be Social lives are overrated. And I can totally understand what Crouton said. When I moved out, I spent pretty much every evening after uni at home playing video games, and it really annoyed me every time one of my roommates came into my room to talk to me. Talk, can you believe that? But seriously, I was quite happy with my lifestyle. I met friends eventually, all of them in my classes, but friends come and go and I don't really mind that much. Just because people say going out and making friends is the best or right way to spend your free time that's not a universal truth. Frak those people.
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Post by Taliesin on May 7, 2014 5:44:28 GMT -6
I didn't have a social life after High School. I literally turned into a hermit. I spent a solid 8 months where I hardly left the house and did nothing, and saw no one but my family. As depressing as that sounds... I actually loved every minute of it. And I sometimes miss that time. I'm social now, and for me it's a double-edged sword. I have a big group of friends now, and I love them all, but it can be so tiring having to hang out with them all the time. When I can't spend long periods of time at home on my own I get anxious. And sometimes I'll have different friends asking me out to do things on almost every day of the week, which is nice, but on the otherhand makes me feel nervous and anxious. i wanna be a hermit. if it wasnt for family i guess i would be Social lives are overrated. And I can totally understand what Crouton said. When I moved out, I spent pretty much every evening after uni at home playing video games, and it really annoyed me every time one of my roommates came into my room to talk to me. Talk, can you believe that? But seriously, I was quite happy with my lifestyle. I met friends eventually, all of them in my classes, but friends come and go and I don't really mind that much. Just because people say going out and making friends is the best or right way to spend your free time that's not a universal truth. Frak those people. Yeah, but I spend most of my time alone. There are literally whole weeks where the only person I get to talk to is my wife, and as much as I love her I would like to have other folks to see face-to-face and communicate with. Sure, I do need a lot of solitude to get my art done, but the older I get the more I realise how much I've missed out on things like - yes - a social life... and I do get a sick feeling in my stomach about that. Not gonna lie. But here's the thing... Firiath is correct when she says that people in your life will come and go. That's just what happens. However, it's exactly that part of the whole thing that I find exhausting. I tend to put all I can of me into any friendships I'm fortunate enough to have, only to find that in pretty much every instance that said friendships end up having an expiry date. So, yeah, every time someone moves on and I never hear from them again, I feel like a jilted lover (pathetic, I know). After years of that, I've gotten tired of expending the energy required to make and maintain friendships because at the end of the day I get zero return. I've gradually become more and more of a recluse, and I hate being one, but I also hate putting effort into being friends when people are so casual about friendships in the first place. So, it's damned if I do and damned if I don't. Gah! Okay, whiney baby sesh over.
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