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Post by Erehsidne on Jul 22, 2014 13:39:06 GMT -6
Well, good for your female friends; that's their prerogative. There's also the possibility of dressing up for yourself and also dress up to look hot. It's not impossible. Sometimes I put on clothes that I think are amazing. Sometimes I put on a dress that I know my boyfriend really appreciate. It's not hard at all. |
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Post by Liv the Librarian on Jul 22, 2014 15:18:15 GMT -6
No it's not hard at all. Usually when I dress up it's because I think I look good in the clothes, but what she is saying is that the broad scope of women dress up "sexy" to attract men, which I am saying is not true... which also really has nothing to do with this debate so we are getting off topic -.-
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Post by SellennaeAlara on Jul 25, 2014 12:47:50 GMT -6
It has to do with the debate because every girl I hung out with as a teen (shockingly enough not the homeschool ones) every time we went swimming; it was 14, 15, 16 years old girls talking about how hot their bikinis are that they hoped the guys they invited on the youth group trip of all things; would finally notices them; in their reveling, flashy bikinis and I think that is wrong; is that bad of me to think that is wrong?
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Post by Liv the Librarian on Jul 25, 2014 17:13:22 GMT -6
Everyone is entitled to their own opinions, but to say that it these things are what get people raped or children molested is wrong. The people who are in danger of molestation or rape should not have to cover themselves from head to foot just to ensure they aren't being raped (take a look at rape numbers in the middle east, where in a lot of countries women are told by law to cover themselves). It's up to the people raping and molesting others to not be horrible human beings.
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Post by TAZ on Jul 31, 2014 0:19:27 GMT -6
holy &#$%.
i think we're dealing with 2 different topics here. do kids belong in grown up clothes & rape/molestation are completely unrelated. kids aren't sexual no matter what they wear.
in this state it is legal for prepubescent boys to be naked on the main street of any town/city, why? because it's not indecent.
saying kids get molested/raped because of their clothing seems to me to be judgemental of the victim rather than the criminal scum responsible.
a rape victim is never at fault. no means no, and in a minor too young to give consent the law gives their no for them.
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Post by Crouton on Aug 10, 2014 20:34:47 GMT -6
I've seen videos of young girls as young as 5 getting waxing done because their mothers force them. Like eyebrow waxing. The cries and the wails that come from the young girls is shocking. I don't know how any parent could do that.
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Post by sjfaerlind on Aug 22, 2014 18:34:43 GMT -6
^^^ OMG... that's just too horrifying to contemplate. ^^^
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Post by TAZ on Aug 23, 2014 0:06:37 GMT -6
at home or in a hairdresser?
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Post by Crouton on Aug 23, 2014 23:04:17 GMT -6
At a salon.
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Post by TAZ on Aug 24, 2014 0:46:32 GMT -6
would have thought that was illegal
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Post by Crouton on Aug 24, 2014 17:13:25 GMT -6
It should be.
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Post by TAZ on Aug 25, 2014 18:41:07 GMT -6
well, you can't get a tattoo until you're 17 right?
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